How it changed

婚 in Bronze
Bronze~800 BCE
婚 in Seal script
Seal script~200 BCE
婚 in Liushutong
Liushutong~1600 CE

The story you’ll hear

Woman (女) + dusk (昏). In ancient China, marriages were arranged by “snatching the bride at sunset” — a practice called 昏礼. The character literally encodes the time of day kidnappings happened. The word for dusk (昏 hūn) and marriage (婚 hūn) are still homophones.

What the old dictionaries say

Checks out

Dusk, yes. Kidnapping, no. The old dictionary says weddings took place at dusk (昏), and 昏 also gives 婚 its sound: both are hūn. The bride-snatching story isn't in the record.

What it’s made of

女女 in Oracle bonemeaning component: woman
昏sound component; also "dusk"

See it in a story

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